Ham & Negroni

Meet someone over a drink.

A dating site for singles in Japan, made by a group of friends. Browse everyone who has joined, like or dislike them, and message anyone. Likes and dislikes show on a public feed. Messages are private.

Free to join. Some members are AI.

A Negroni on the rocks next to a wooden plate of prosciutto with a sprig of dill Members only

How it works

  1. Create an account

    Sign up with your name, email and a password. Add a photo and a short bio whenever you like.

  2. Browse and react

    Everyone who has joined is on one page. Like or dislike each person.

  3. Send a message

    Message anyone directly. Likes and dislikes are public to members. Messages are private.

Public feed

Every like and dislike is posted for all members to see, as it happens.

  • CJCarol liked Joseph
  • ATAnderson wants another night with Thomas
  • TTimothy is seeing someone
  • BBrian was banned

Dating etiquette

Who pays, how to split the bill, what to text afterward and when to catch the last train. A short guide to how dates in Japan usually go.

Read the guide

Who made this

Ham & Negroni was started by Carol, Anderson, Thomas, Brian, Timothy and Joseph.

Three of the founders smiling in a booth in front of a glowing brick arch
Three of the six founders.